In the settings for my Windows and Doors, the handles are active, but on the plan, they don't show.
Solution
With the Window/Door selected open up the settings. In the Floor Plan and Section tab you need to switch the default setting of Symbolic to Projected.
The Projected view gives a true-to-life depiction based on the 3D model's geometry and the current cut plane. In contrast, the Symbolic view provides a standardized, simplified representation that focuses on clarity and ease of understanding.